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Tip 1:<\/strong> Telepathy is a terrible tool for maintaining a healthy relationship. <\/p>\n How come? <\/p>\n Well, if you\u2019re depending on your partner to just:<\/p>\n Then you\u2019re setting yourself up for disappointment and resentment. <\/p>\n What I\u2019m going to say next, might really sting you, but you need to know the whole: <\/p>\n \u201cIf my partner really loved me, they\u2019d know I: Baloney only happens in the movies.<\/p>\n So if telepathy is a terrible tool for maintaining, or creating a healthy relationship… <\/p>\n …What\u2019s a better way?<\/p>\n Tip 2:<\/strong> Honest, Open and KIND communication. <\/p>\n See how the work \u2018Kind\u2019 is in all capitals? <\/p>\n It\u2019s not a typo. <\/p>\n You see, honest and open (I.e. Not bottling stuff up) communication can be used like a sledgehammer to destroy a relationship. <\/p>\n But when it\u2019s delivered kindly it can build and develop it.<\/p>\n However… <\/p>\n \u2026It\u2019s impossible to have honest, open and KIND communication unless both partners feel safe in the relationship. <\/p>\n You might be wondering what safe means? <\/p>\n What follows is a list of some of the most common barriers people experience when it comes to feeling safe in a relationship: <\/p>\n Bottom line:<\/strong> Good things happen in relationships when people feel safe in them. <\/p>\n Tip 3:<\/strong> What to look for in a good partner.<\/p>\n Contrary to what you might like to think, people\u2019s basic personalities don\u2019t change unless there\u2019s an incredibly powerful reason for doing so and in my experience… <\/p>\n …That\u2019s rare. <\/p>\n Most of my work is with people who WANT to change and even then they find it really hard to overcome years of relationship destroying habits. <\/p>\n People who have no interest in changing and just want to get on with their lives, well, they don\u2019t change. <\/p>\n And the truth no one wants to hear is this: <\/p>\n Your love for them isn\u2019t enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n Your love, as wonderful and powerful as it is will not be enough to change your potential life partner\u2019s personality. <\/p>\n If they\u2019re \u2018seriously flawed\u2019<\/em> now, the studies suggest that in 5, 10, 15 years time… <\/p>\n … They\u2019re still going to be seriously flawed. <\/p>\n So, if you, or someone you know is looking for a significant other, make sure you pay close attention to\u2026<\/p>\n Tip 4: <\/strong><\/p>\n 10 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Moving Into a Serious Relationship <\/strong><\/p>\n The University of Exeter ran a study looking to find out what makes relationships work. Based on their findings they recommend asking yourself some very important questions about your potential life partner, before<\/strong> you take the plunge.<\/p>\n Here they are: <\/p>\n If you\u2019re answering these questions and getting too many No\u2019s, then it\u2019s a strong sign you might want to continue your search for Mr or Miss Right.<\/p>\n Remember…<\/p>\n … Relationships that last don\u2019t do so by accident.<\/p>\n They are the result of taking time to find the right partner and being prepared to constantly work on your relationship. <\/p>\n In my experience a relationship is always a work in progress. You never get to sit back and think you\u2019ve got it all sewn up.<\/p>\n So forget what you\u2019ve seen in the movies and instead focus on what has been shown to work. <\/p>\n And if you\u2019d like access to tools proven to work when your relationship feels like it\u2019s heading for the rocks\u2026<\/p>\n\n
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