{"id":1490,"date":"2024-04-06T15:12:06","date_gmt":"2024-04-06T14:12:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/southdevoncouplestherapy.com\/?p=1490"},"modified":"2024-04-06T15:43:54","modified_gmt":"2024-04-06T14:43:54","slug":"how-to-create-a-shared-vision-for-your-future","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/southdevoncouplestherapy.com\/how-to-create-a-shared-vision-for-your-future\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Create a Shared Vision for Your Future"},"content":{"rendered":"
Hey there!<\/p>\n
So, you’ve found yourself in the middle of yet another disagreement about where to spend your next holiday or how many children you want, or perhaps even where to live? <\/p>\n
I’ve seen countless couples face similar struggles in my couples only counselling sessions.<\/p>\n
Here’s the good news:
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Disagreements like these aren’t really about holidays, kids, or houses. <\/p>\n
Nope, they’re about a deeper issue \u2013 a lack of a shared vision for the future. But fear not, because I’m going to let you in on 7 tips you can use to create a shared vision, which is a cornerstone for any lasting relationship.<\/p>\n
1. Start with Self-reflection<\/strong><\/p>\n Remember that date you went on when you were first getting to know each other? The one where you talked about your dreams, ambitions, and what you wanted out of life? I want you to go back to that moment. Before you can craft a joint vision, understand your personal dreams first. This isn’t a selfish move; it’s a crucial step.<\/p>\n 2. Communicate and Listen<\/strong><\/p>\n Once you’ve gotten in touch with your own desires, sit down with your partner and share them. Listen actively to theirs too. Remember, this isn’t a negotiation at the United Nations. It’s a loving conversation with the person you care about most. The aim? Seek to understand and then to be understood.<\/p>\n